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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Stop going back and forth. Stop second-guessing your own reality. Get the clarity you deserve — so you can move forward with peace, not regret.

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You're not alone in this

Does any of this sound like where you are right now?

01

You feel like something is off — but you can't quite name it. You've Googled your partner's behavior, analyzed every conversation, and still can't land on an answer.

02

You feel anxious, confused, or like you're walking on eggshells — and you feel shame about feeling relief when your partner isn't around.

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You've lost trust in your own gut. Staying feels like settling. Leaving feels like losing. And doing nothing feels like slow suffocation.

You don't have to figure this out alone. And you don't have to keep spinning.

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

This course helps you gain real clarity — so you can decide how to start moving forward, and know what to do with that next step. Built on 10 years of working with thousands of people in toxic relationships all over the world, we've taken the questions that have brought the most clarity to the most people and put them in one place — so you can get out of limbo and finally start moving forward.

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Real words from real people we've worked with

"This work changed my life."

Hear what happened when she stopped spinning and finally found her answer.

With Should I Stay or Should I Go

Getting clarity is as simple as 1, 2, 3

1

See your relationship clearly

Learn to name what's actually happening — the patterns, the tactics, the emotional confusion — without self-doubt getting in the way.

2

Reconnect to yourself

Turn your focus inward. Rediscover your values, your non-negotiables, and your own voice — the one you stopped trusting.

3

Make your decision with peace

Walk away with a clear, grounded answer — and a path forward, whether you stay or go.

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This course is for you

If you are...

Then you are in exactly the right place.

This course was built for you — not to make the decision for you, but to give you the clarity, the tools, and the permission to trust yourself enough to take the next step — and know exactly what to do once you have it.

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By the end of Should I Stay or Should I Go,

You Will Have:

A clear understanding of what's actually happening in your relationship — without second-guessing your own perception.

Language for the patterns you've been living inside — gaslighting, trauma bonds, codependency — so you stop wondering if you're "overreacting."

A reconnection to your own values, boundaries, and non-negotiables — the foundation for any decision you make.

A confident, grounded answer to the question you've been asking — with a path forward that feels like yours.

Should I Stay or Should I Go

The decision you've been carrying alone — finally has a path.

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What's Inside

Here's what you'll get inside Should I Stay or Should I Go

Module 1

See the Patterns Clearly

By the end of this module, the cycle you've been stuck in for years will finally have a name — and once you can name it, you can stop blaming yourself for not figuring it out sooner.

  • The cyclical patterns that keep smart, self-aware people stuck for years
  • The line between a hard relationship and a harmful one (and why you've been confused about which one you're in)
  • How to tell the difference between your intuition and your trauma response — they feel identical and they aren't
  • What a genuinely healthy relationship actually looks like (most of us have never seen one)

Module 2

Name What's Actually Happening

Once you have language for what's been happening, you stop wondering if you're "overreacting" — and start trusting your own reality again.

  • Identify the signs of toxic behavior most people miss until it's too late
  • Finally understand the language: gaslighting, codependency, trauma bonds — what they actually are vs. how the internet uses them
  • Stop second-guessing your perception and start trusting your experience

Module 3

Come Back to Yourself

This is the module where you stop being a stranger to yourself. You remember what you actually want, what you actually need, and what you're not willing to lose anymore.

  • Turn your focus inward — to your own values, needs, and desires
  • Set boundaries that actually hold (not the kind that collapse the second they're tested)
  • Stop sacrificing your core values to keep the peace
  • Get crystal clear on your non-negotiables — the ones you won't trade away again

Module 4

Use Your Knowledge to Decide

This is where everything you've learned starts working together. You stop reacting from fear and start choosing from clarity.

  • Integrate everything from the first three modules into one grounded perspective
  • Approach the decision with clarity instead of fear
  • Understand what staying would actually require — and what leaving would actually free
Releases Week 4

Module 5

Your Answer — With Peace

You walked in confused. You leave clear — with a real path forward, whichever direction you choose.

  • A guided framework to land on your decision with real confidence
  • If you're moving toward staying: the conditions, conversations, and shifts that have to happen for staying to actually work
  • If you're moving toward leaving: how to step into that next chapter with steadiness instead of panic
  • The foundation for the next chapter of your life, no matter what you decide

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And You'll Get These Extra Bonuses — For Free!

$97 Value

Gaslighting Recovery Workbook

Includes:

  • A deep-dive workbook to document patterns and validate your experience
  • Tools to rebuild your sense of reality after chronic self-doubt
  • Exercises to help you see what's been happening with clear eyes

$197 Value

Gaslighting & Manipulation Workshop

Includes:

  • On-demand training to understand the specific tactics used against you
  • How to stop doubting yourself and start trusting your experience
  • Real language to name what's been happening so you can stop second-guessing

$97 Value

Meditation for Containing Big Emotions

Includes:

  • A guided meditation to help you process overwhelming feelings
  • Tools to stay regulated as you work through this material
  • Support for the emotional weight that comes with this decision

Ok, let's recap!

Here's What You're Getting When You Enroll in Should I Stay or Should I Go Today:

5 video modules dripped weekly, walking you step-by-step to clarity

Gaslighting Recovery Workbook to validate your experience ($97 value)

Gaslighting & Manipulation Workshop on demand ($197 value)

Meditation for Big Emotions to stay grounded through the process ($97 value)

Over $430+ worth of trauma-informed relationship clarity support…

All yours for just $39.

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We believe in this course with everything we have — because we've watched it change lives. If you don't feel you've gained meaningful clarity on your relationship within 30 days, email us at hello@therelationshiprecovery.com for a full refund. No hoops. No guilt. We only want you here if this is genuinely serving you.

Have Questions?

We've Got Answers.

How do I know this is right for me?

If you're even asking the question "should I stay or should I go?" — this is for you. This isn't about pushing you in one direction. It's about moving you out of the limbo you're living in, because limbo is not a place to stay.

How many modules are there and when do I get access?

There are 5 modules total, dripped weekly. You'll receive a new module each week, with Modules 4 and 5 both releasing in Week 4.

Will this course tell me to stay or to leave?

No — and that's intentional. Kierstyn and Tiffany are not here to make this decision for you. They're here to help you trust yourself enough to make it. This course gives you the tools to actually hear your own answer and take the next step toward the best direction for you.

What if my partner finds out I bought this?

We thought about this when we built it. There's no physical mail, no shipped product, and nothing arrives at your door. The course lives inside a private member portal you can access from your phone, and the modules are short enough to work through in 20-minute pockets when you have privacy. Your purchase is yours. You get to decide who knows about it and when.

I've already read the books, listened to the podcasts, and done the work. How is this different?

Most resources out there are either pure information ("here's what gaslighting is") or pure encouragement ("you deserve better"). This course is built on a trauma-informed framework that combines parts work, attachment, and the kind of relational tools therapists train years to learn — translated into something you can actually use on yourself. It's not more information. It's the missing structure that turns everything you already know into a real decision.

What if I take this course and decide to stay — will I feel like I wasted my money?

No. The people who decide to stay after this course tell us it was the most valuable $39 they've ever spent — because for the first time, staying is a choice they're making consciously, not a default they're settling into. Module 5 includes specific tools for what staying actually has to look like for it to work: the conditions, the conversations, the shifts. You leave with a real path forward either way.

Do I have to be in a bad relationship to take this course?

Not at all. You might be in a relationship that looks fine on the outside but feels off on the inside. You might just need help getting honest with yourself. Wherever you are, this course was built to meet you there.

How long do I have access?

Lifetime access. Go at your own pace, return whenever you need to, and revisit any module as your situation evolves.

How much does it cost?

$39 — one-time payment, instant access. Everything in the course is included at that price. We also offer an optional coaching call add-on for those who want personalized support alongside the material.

Is there a guarantee?

Yes. If you complete the coursework and don't feel you've gained meaningful clarity, contact us within 30 days for a full refund.

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Meet Kierstyn & Tiffany

Tiffany and Kierstyn met during one of the most difficult seasons of their lives — both navigating divorce, leaning on each other for support. They realized there were few real resources to help people heal. So they built them. The Relationship Recovery now reaches millions worldwide.

Kierstyn Franklin

Co-Founder & Co-Creator of The Relationship Recovery

Kierstyn Franklin

Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy & Relationship Trauma Coach · CLC & CHC · Motivational Speaker · #1 Amazon Best Selling Author · Podcast Host

For the people who lost themselves trying to be loved.Kierstyn Franklin is a co-founder of The Relationship Recovery, a #1 Amazon best-selling author, speaker, and relationship coach whose work goes far deeper than advice. She helps people reclaim themselves after the relationships that broke them — rebuilding identity, self-worth, and the ability to trust themselves again. Her work centers on the formative relationship patterns most people don't realize they're carrying — the ones we inherit and absorb long before we ever choose a partner. Trained in Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy and co-creator of The Relationship Recovery Method™, Kierstyn helps you name those patterns, understand where they came from, and finally break them.

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Tiffany Denny

Co-Founder & Co-Creator of The Relationship Recovery

Tiffany Denny

Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy & Relationship Trauma Coach · CLC & CHC · Motivational Speaker · #1 Amazon Best Selling Author · Podcast Host

You deserve to feel safe. In your relationships, and in yourself.Tiffany Denny is a co-founder of The Relationship Recovery, a #1 Amazon best-selling author, and a relationship coach whose work is rooted in one core belief: every person deserves to feel safe, connected, and at home in their relationships — starting with the one they have with themselves. Trained in Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy and co-creator of The Relationship Recovery Method™, Tiffany is known for helping people move beyond surface-level healing and finally experience real, lasting change — because when the relationship with yourself begins to heal, every other relationship in your life starts to change too.

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